We chase for experiences ... not for relationships. And it's a big difference between the 2 terms … by the well know romanian author Adrian Dumitru

One of the biggest problem of the human being is that doesn't know how to ... define.

The journey itself.

And ... what really wants to happen for real ... into this journey.

I had this problem too.

Many, many times.

Well ... until I've understood that i must ask myself all the time .... what do i want.

So .... I keep repeating to myself.

"What do you want?!"

"What do you want?!"

"What do you want?!"

Expecting ... to have ... good answers.

Also ... clarity.

But ... that's pure theory ... what i am saying ... and i just try to follow those psychological mechanisms ... so that into the end to see that ... i understand my life, my patterns of

behaviour ... and all which is defining myself.

And ... recently I've observed something ... very weird.

At me ... and the others too.

Somehow ... trying to accept it.

I've started to be more interested about the experience itself.

... that being my main focus.

Not the relationship.

... just the experience.

Of course ... that if i would tell that to the people from the stage of my life ... i would annoy them.

All of them.

Fortunately ... or unfortunately ... this is the truth.

... the real one.

But ... there is a good thing into that.

Being more focused on the moment itself ... not really caring that i need to have all sorts of relationships in the real life ... I've divided all ... into active and non active connections.

And ... whenever all is boring ... or actually brings me a negative impact ... i pretend i remain into the relationship ... but ...

Yes ....

I don't stay connected anymore.

So ... the real truth is that ... i only chase for beautiful or interesting experiences ... and if this is not coming from a relationship ... with anyone from my life ... i just disconnect ... pretending i am still connected.

Looks ... like a nonsense.

But .... it's not.

I really think ... it's ok what i am doing.

Even .... beneficial for myself.

Might look ... selfish.

But ... it's not.

It's really not.

Many others feel like me ... but don't have the power to admit it.

Cause ... the truth is ... nobody wants anymore ... boring relationships.

We run away of them.

Boringness ... is the absence of life.

And ... we need active energies.

Nice connections.

I personally admit ... that i am more interested by experiences ... not by relationships ... but since I've accepted this new philosophy of life all changed.

... cause i try to change the dynamic of my relationships.

Making them ... be ... nice experiences.

... the quality of my life being improved.

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